Sometimes finding an emo soul mate is a real pain. Depending on the area that you live in, the emo population can be slim to none. So, where should single emo girls go to meet single emo guys? Well, here are a few ideas.
Whether it be high school or college, there are bound to be a few single emo guys roaming around the campus. And what better place to get a good feel for a guy than somewhere that you see him every day.
By far the second largest, and sometimes even the largest, concentration of emo guys can be found at the mall. This is a single emo girls haven for, at the very least, some really nice eye candy. I have yet to go to the mall and not spot at least one hottie walking around with his besties. And if you're lucky, his besties will be hotties too.
This one is hit or miss, depending on how large the party is and who is throwing it. Parties are great for all sorts of single people to meet and mingle with people outside of their normal social group, guys and chicks from other schools, and people you might not have ever had the chance to meet otherwise.
There are a few other places that single emo girls can meet single emo guys. The Skate Park is another hit or miss. Typically there are mostly, if not only, guys there, so it might be a bit awkward going unless you have a friend to go with, but sometimes it can be really worth it.
Starbucks is ironically another good place for single emo girls to meet single emo guys. The best ones to check out are the ones that are attached to a Barnes and Nobles. A lot of the time the hot emo guy is the one behind the counter making your coffee.
This one should be a no brainer. Emos like concerts just like everyone else. If you go watch a popular emo band, there's a pretty good chance you'll hit the jackpot motherload of hot emo guys.
If you were clueless before, now you have something to go off of. So, next time you're bored on a Saturday, grab one of your other single friends, hop in the car, and check out these typical emo boy hotspots. Who knows, after making the rounds, you might end up not single.
Emo is not some big bird closely related to an ostrich; that's an emu and emus are not hot emo guys. Emo is a musical genre that has exploded in popularity over the last decade especially with teens. The style has been around far longer then ten years dating as far back as the mid 1980s as a response to the angry punk music. Musicians were looking for a way to express their emotions instead of just providing social commentary. Today, emo is more of a style then anything else and perhaps one of the easiest styles to recognize.
Emo is considered the shortened version of "emotional" which is what this style is all about. Therefore, much of the emo music is characterized by songs that speak from the heart and honestly about how the group or singer feels. One can easily point out the influences of earlier musical styles in this genre which includes punk, indie, and even a bit of New Wave. But music is not the only thing that makes one emo. Today, it is all about fashion.
Take a look at any public place where teens can be found and you will be sure to spot at least three who are emo. Often confused with Goth, the emo style is dominated by black hair, thick eye liner, for both boys and girls, and studs which are often found on belts and bracelets. The most common look for emo hair is short in the back with long side swept bangs covering at least one of the eyes.
As mentioned the eyes are outlined in thick black eyeliner often done in the Cleopatra style. If jeans are worn they must be tight with guys often opting to wear girl jeans. The shirt is also tight sometimes being a size too small and can be adorned with the name of emo bands, slogans, or ironic images. The shoes are usually canvas much like skater shoes.
Along with the look comes the attitude. A negative stereotype has been created which lumps Emo with the same category of kids who cut themselves or are nihilist. While there are cross overs this stereotype is not always correct and can just be a result that many teens are emo and those teens may have severe emotional issues which causes the self destructive behavior. You do not have to cut yourself to be emo.